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Films reflect your life and vice-versa (‘Start A New Life’ activity)

March 10, 2015 by Keyur Seta 5 Comments


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Keyur Seta

In my personal opinion, formula Hindi movies are similar to our real lives. It is just that films are dramatized for entertainment purpose. So if you take away the larger-than-life elements from our Hindi films, you will be able to relate with many of them. One such element is twists or turns in a story. Is there anyone who hasn’t experienced such Kahani Mein Twist? I don’t think so.

But there are times when you are required to make important decisions to bring out this twist in your life or to Start A New Life. Sometimes, this also means taking a bold decision that can risk something as precious as your career if it doesn’t turn out to be successful. Taking one such decision changed my life entirely for good.

Initially, I wasn’t entirely sure of my decision but I just went ahead with it, just like Jai and Veeru did in Sholay when they agreed to capture Gabbar alive, despite not knowing how they would go about it and whether they would succeed. Life sometimes throws Aar Ya Paar kind of a situation, where you have no other choice but to make a bold move.

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There is a back story or a flashback that was responsible for my move. It started after I secured 64.20 % in my 10th standard. For average students like me, it was a moment to cherish. I thought from now onwards, my academic life would be smooth, just like Raj kept saying in Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge during that Europe tour – “Ab koi problem nahin aa sakti”.Unfortunately, I too landed in a soup like Raj did in the movie.

Like a large majority of average students, I went into the Commerce stream. My decision was an outcome of a clichéd mentality in Mumbai, according to which scholars take Science, weak students go into Arts and the average ones opt for Commerce. If a student dares to go different, he is considered crazy. This is akin to 80s and 90s formula where a boy and a girl have to dance around trees after falling in love. If they don’t, it isn’t love. Simple.

My experience into commerce was like Jana Tha Japan Pohonch Gaye Cheen. I soon realized Commerce wasn’t my cup of tea. It wasn’t my cup, in fact! Subjects like Accounts and Economics gave me a feeling of nausea. I have nothing against this field. It is just that I am not made for such hisaab kitaab. I felt very much like Rahul of Chennai Express who wanted to go to Goa but landed up in Meenamma’s gangster village.

Still, I endured Commerce till 12th standard, like Veer Pratap Singh in Veer-Zaara. I somehow managed to pass that year. (No, this time I won’t mention my marks.) But then I thought of taking the bold decision of leaving Commerce and going into Arts (from 13th standard onwards). I had developed an interest in writing by the time I reached 12th. And after that, I was quite sure of pursuing it as a profession.

Initially, my parents weren’t convinced and got worried. But they slowly understood and realized my interest and allowed me through a change of heart or Hriday-Parivartan in our films. I did face criticisms for my decision with some people almost laughing at me. But as we know, Kuchh toh log kahenge, logon ka kaam hai kehna.

The decision of moving into Arts turned out to be truly a life-changing one. Today, I wonder what my life would have been if I hadn’t switched. In fact, I shudder to even think about it! I also feel I wouldn’t have been writing this blog right now. Now, some of those who laughed at me are appreciating my move. Rancho and Farhan of 3 Idiots would be proud of me! Aal Izz Well!

But this wouldn’t have been possible if my parents hadn’t given a green signal. A big Thank You to them! The only difference is that they didn’t say, “Jaa, jee le apni zindagi”.

 

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  1. Radhika Maheshwari says

    March 10, 2015 at 18:42

    Lol!! The best part of the post are the lines from different movies! 😀
    This is a great start Keyur! 🙂

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    • Keyur Seta says

      March 10, 2015 at 22:50

      Thanks a lot Radhika 🙂

      Reply
  2. Abhishek Gupta says

    March 25, 2015 at 01:27

    There you have realised it… from trial balance to Tonamac, it was me who realised the hidden Mr Bhatia and helped him cross the road along with aunty fanny. Now that uncle aunty with the help of my immense hidden talent:D has helped you pen down the final entry in the trial balance of your life, a misal pav treat in Tonamac would definitely balance the trial balance account. ..;)

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  3. ASHESH says

    March 25, 2015 at 11:18

    Xcellent piece Keyur…

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  4. Nilesh surve says

    March 25, 2015 at 12:49

    Unfortunately I am going through the same phase as you were during your commerce days……My passion is cricket(growing up watching Sachin….dreaming about walking down the stairs of wankhede to bat along with Sachin Sir with crowd cheering Sachin Sachin…..can relate to Kiyo of Ferrari ki Sawaari :P).My talent is in drawing and painting but have least interest in it,and finally I am a computer engineer(completed my engineering just like you mentioned in your blog like veer pratap singh,those 4 years were like 4 decades) who is working as a web developer….Hope one day I could find my way .I could possibly do the activity which will give me happiness.

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